Wednesday, May 29, 2013

this what I call 'FAMILY'

"Berjalan menuju masjid untuk salat tahajjud bersama setiap malam itu sudah cukup untuk mewakili kata 'romantis'" - Papa Mama


I'll be there to love you so, you are my soul
الرحيمون يرحم هم الرحمن, تبارك و تعالى, ارحموا من في الأرض يرحمكم من في السماء- Rahma by Talib Alhabib
  
This backsound starts so does my history.

Aku ini perantau..
Punya lebih banyak teman daripada musuh
Dan mereka tau banget gimana keluargaku memperlakukanku
Manja, so sweet, romantis
Itu kata mereka lho, bukan kataku.

Papa
Sosoknya emang serem. Alisnya tebel kaya ulet (ini kata Papa sendiri), hidung mancung, bibir tebal, badan besar. Tapi hatinya? beuh manis dan soft banget kaya permen gulali. Melankolis saya mungkin nurun dari beliau. Nama aslinya Zaenal Arifin. Nama palsunya ga ada dong, hehe. Sekarang ini umurnya 54. Papaku ini suka banget senyum, becanda, peramah, riang dan gembira. Tapi diantara 5 anggota keluargaku, yang paling sering aku liat nangis itu ya Papa. Why? bukan karena masalah atau rintangan hidup, tapi karena terkena efek nonton film sedih. Contohnya, waktu itu itu kita sekeluarga nonton Ketika Cinta Bertasbih. Azzam sebagi aktor utama kan jadi penjual tempe yak di Mesir. Syutingnya otomatis di Mesir. Pada saat itu, Mas Arif (kakak kedua yang sedang belajar di Mesir) gak ikut nonton, karena dia masih disana. Gak pulang. Nah, Mbak Vega tiba-tiba megang tanganku trus bisik2 "dek, liat Papa". Tedengdeng, pas aku liat, Papa lagi sesenggukan tak bersuara. Lucuuuu.. pas pulang aku tanya alasan kenapa Papa nangis, beliau menjawab "Pas Azzam lagi buat tempe, Papa tiba2 kangen Mas Arif." ada lagi adegan Papa yang bikin aku terus senyum senyum sampai sekarang. Pas Mas Arif nikah. Orang kedua setelah Papa yang sering nangis adalah Mas Arif. Saat salam2an, aku sengaja di barisan terakhir, biar bisa meluk erat Mas Arif. Tiba2 Papa berdiri disampingku, nah Mas Arif nyamperin kan tuh, pas sama Papa nangis Mas Arifnya, tapi Papanya gak nangis. Akhirnya sampai ke aku, aku langsung meluk, nangis, sambil bilang "Mas, jangan berubah ya. De ella sayang Mas" Mas Arif bilang "tenang aja, jangan sedih dong" okeh, aku tenang, udah ga nangis dipelukan. eeeh tiba2 Papa meluk kita berdua sambil ngomong "yang kuat ya, yang kuat" dengan nadanya yang bergetar sesak dengan tangisan

Monday, May 20, 2013

Tips when exam says 'hello'

5 days before a real ADILLAH AL-AHKAM exam.



Yeha, how are you all?? Are you student? Will these 2 weeks be an exhausting one? I think so, here in IIUM we will be facing final exam, just counting down and you will feel the following below:
1. Screaming when you do not accomplish your task completely.
2. Rounding up or scratching your whole head while screaming loudly when you do not find what you want, such as methods, abbreviation of your math subject, etc.
3. Feel too lazy to go to canteen.
4. Consuming more NOODLE rather than having meal in canteen.
5. Listening to music then suddenly you become a SOLO SINGER without take a big deal with roommates who distracted by your terrifying voice tone.

However, do you know that exam is some kind of situation where you can be closer to your Creator?? did you realize it?? 

When exam comes, you will be free to:
1. Increase your pray and ask anything you want to him, in order to pass the exam perfectly.
2. Increase your recitation of qur'an.
3. Ask redha from your parents.
4. Practice tahajjud and hajat prayer.
5. Sodaqoh and shalawat


The Muslim students are supposed to put their trust in Allah when facing the tests of this world as prescribed in Islam. Why? I will now let you know what Rasulullah said  : 

“The strong believer is better and is more beloved to Allah than the weak believer, although both are good. Strive to attain that which will benefit you and seek the help of Allaah, and do not feel helpless.” (Sahih Muslim, hadits no. 2664)

Among those means are the following:
1.Turning to Allah by making du’a in any way that is prescribed in Islam, such as saying, 

Rabbiy ishrah li sadri wa yassir li amri (O my Lord, expand my chest and make things easy for me).”

2.Get used to sleep early and go to the exams on time.
3. Preparing all required or permitted equipment such as pens, rulers, etc.
4. Reciting the du’a for leaving the house:
 “Bismillaah, tawakkaltu ‘ala Allaah, wa laa hawla wa laa quwwata illa Billaah. Allaahumma inni a’oodhu bika an adilla aw udalla, aw azilla aw uzalla, aw azlima aw uzlama, aw ajhala aw yujhala ‘alayya (In the name of Allaah, I put my trust in Allaah, and there is no strength and no power except with Allaah. O Allaah, I seek refuge with You lest I should stray or be led astray, lest I slip (commit a sin unintentionally) or be tripped, lest I oppress or be oppressed, lest I behave foolishly or be treated foolishly).”
 Do not forget to seek your parents’ approval, for their du’aa’ for you will be answered.

5. Mention the name of Allah and  shalawat Nabi before you start.
6. Fear Allah with regard to your classmates, and do not be affected by their anxiety or fear just before the exam, for anxiety is a contagious disease.
7. Remembering Allaah (zhikr) dispels anxiety and tension. If something is too difficult for you, then pray to Allah to make it easy for you. Whenever Shaykh al-Islam Ibn Taymiyah (may Allaah have mercy on him) found something too difficult to understand, he would say,

 “O You Who taught Ibraaheem, teach me; O You Who caused Sulaymaan to understand, cause me to understand.” 

8. Choose a good place to sit during the exam, if you can. Keep your back straight, and sit on the chair in a healthy manner.
9. Look over the exam first. Studies advise spending 10% of the exam time in reading the questions carefully.
10. Plan to answer the easy questions first, then the difficult ones.
11. Answer questions according to importance.
12. Start by answering the easy questions which you know. Then move on to the questions which carry high marks, 
13. Take your time to answer, for the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “Deliberation is from Allaah and haste is from the Shaytaan.” (A hasan hadeeth. Saheeh al-Jaami, 3011).
14. Think carefully about the answer and choose the right answer when answering multiple-choice questions. Deal with them in the following manner. If you are sure that you have chosen the right answer, then beware of waswasah (insinuating whispers from the Shaytaan).
15. Write the main points of your answer at the beginning of the line, because this is what the examiner is looking for.
16. Devote 10% of the time for reviewing your answers. Resist the desire to hand in the exam papers quickly. Be confident without seeing others who submit earlier.
17. If you discover after the exam that you answered some questions incorrectly, then take that as a lesson in the importance of being well prepared in the future, and not rushing to answer questions. Accept the will and decree of Allah and do not fall prey to frustration and despair. Remember the hadeeth of the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him), “If anything befalls you, do not say, ‘If only I had done such and such.’ Rather say, ‘Qadar Allaah wa maa sha’a kaan (the decree of Allah and what He wills happened),’ for saying ‘if only’ opens the door for the Shaytaan.” (Saheeh Muslim, and the first part of this hadeeth was mentioned above).
18. Note that cheating is haraam whether it is in foreign language tests or any other tests. The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said, “Whoever cheats is not one of us.”
19. Remember what you have prepared for the Hereafter, and the questions of the examination in the grave, and how to be saved on the Day of Resurrection. Whoever is saved from the Fire and admitted to Paradise will indeed have succeeded.

We ask Allah to make us succeed in this world and cause us to be among those who are victorious and saved in the Hereafter, for He is the All-Hearing Who answers prayer.

So how we welcome our exam? do we put under pressure for our mind to always think? Have you left your bad procrastination skill? hehehe... just kidding. I am just an ordinary reminder who want to share with others and also remind my  self.
Okay then, just relax, do not get stressed out because hope still abides. Turn everything to Allah and let Him decide what we deserve. Ah ya, have you downloaded previous year exam paper from digital library? InshaAllah it will help you to answer the exam. Happy exam week!

May Allah ease us to pass exam and get high CGPA and practice what we have learned. Aamiin Ya Rabb. We know undoubtedly that YOU are the best supporter, the best helper ever.

#convey from me even a single verse- Rasulullah SAW.

 

Sunday, May 19, 2013

A Powerful Act of Witnessing

Kuala Lumpur PALESTINE Film Festival

In a silence
I know how struggling their life is
Nothing else but to be thankful
To us who still breath fresh air
Then what are we waiting for?
Do we have heart tone to let them fall down on sorrow without helping?
Where is ukhuwah??
I just hope from you who still have beat heart
Just pray even once per day for them
Let them smile, let the world be happy
Alfatihah...

Hey, I wrote this to promote you about two films I watched 2 days ago. This program held on 17-19 May 2013. We chose date 18 and spent a full day outside, GSC Pavilion and KLCC. It's counted as releasing our duty busy wholeday before facing coming exam next week. These two films are about Palestinian and Israeli. I'll let you know the synopsis below.

1. LEMON TREE
Genre: Drama
Directed by: Eran Riklis
Runtime: 106 minutes

Lemon Tree is the story of Palestinian widow, named Salma, who defends her lemon tree field from her new neighbour; The new ISRAELI Defence Minister. She feels isolated with her sons moving to Washington and her daughters married. The local village elder advises her to give in, but Salma decides to work with the young lawyer and they take their case all the way to the Supreme Court. She meets Mira, the minister's wife, who sympathizes with Salma.

The court case receives notable media attention, and Mira gives a new interview that her husband regrets. Mira believes that ISRAELI military overreacted, and she also shares Salma's sense of personal loneliness. A complex, though not always evident, human bond develops between the 2 women. But Salma's case is dismissed. Mira moves out, and a concrete wall is a built between Salma's land and the Defense Minister's house. A final camera shot reveals the lemon trees to have been cut down.

Yap, this film earns many awards  and I advise you to download it from youtube and watch it. Share your love to the world.

The second one is....

2. 5 BROKEN CAMERAS
Genre: documentary
Directed by: Imad Burnat, guy Davidi
Runtime: 94 minutes

This film gained international fame when it was nominated for Best Documenatry Feature at the Academy Awards 2013.

It's about activist in the West bank, particularly one man's story. Emad lives in Bil'in where the residents have been protesting against the building of the separation wall for years. When his fourth son Gibreel was born, Emad got his first camera and started filming not only his son growing but also the protest. This changed his life; daily arrest and night raids which intimidates his family and friends. The ISRAELI forces to destroy his camera, but Emad just went out and got another one. Camera after camera, over five years, each camera capturing part oh his story.

No doubt, this film documentary also yields awards. Without more thinking of, please just watch it and let your tears flow down.

Through this movie I do realize that my life is full of bless and feel more comfortable than theirs.

SO,
Pray for all muslim around the world after obligatory shalat by sending Alfatihah. 
and...
Be thankful.

Witness: Laila, Hanifah, Arina, Putri, Izzati, Salsa.
Date: 18 May 2013
Venue: GSC Pavilion. Kuala Lumpur
Time: 3.20 pm, 5.30 pm

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